The use of adult toys has become an indelible fact. It can not only add fun to our sex life, but also help us balance life and sex. Here are 4 steps to help you choose the right toys.

Step 1 Understand Your Preferences

Think about your experience of sex, no matter that is during solo or partnered which part of pleasure that you can’t forget! Find that moment, maybe clitoral stimulation? or internal sensations? Or both ! then ask yourself about “do you prefer gentle vibrations, or are you seeking something more intense?” Identifying your preferences will narrow down your choices

Step 2 Find your toys

If you successfully identify your preferences, let’s us choose for sex toys. Here is type of toys that you need to look forward:

• Clitoral vibrators are specifically designed for external stimulation of the clitoris. They often have a small, focused tip to deliver precise vibrations to this highly sensitive area.
• G-spot vibrators have a curved shape to target the G-spot, an area on the front wall of the vagina. They can provide intense internal stimulation and potentially lead to G-spot orgasms.
• Rabbit vibrators combine both clitoral and G-spot stimulation, featuring an external arm for the clitoris and an internal shaft for vaginal penetration.
• Wand vibrators are larger, more powerful devices originally marketed as back massagers. They're excellent for broad external stimulation and can be used all over the body.
• Realistic dildos are designed to look and feel like a penis, often including details like veins and a head.
• Glass or metal dildos are smooth, firm, and temperature responsive. They can be warmed or cooled for temperature play.
• Suction cup dildos have a flat base that can adhere to smooth surfaces, allowing for hands-free use
• Butt plugs are designed to be inserted and left in place, providing a feeling of fullness. They have a flared base for safety.
• Prostate massagers are curved to target the prostate gland in people with penises, potentially leading to intense orgasms.
• Anal beads consist of a series of graduated spheres on a string, designed to be inserted and removed for pleasurable sensations
• Cock rings are worn around the base of the penis or testicles to enhance erections and delay orgasm. Some vibrate for added stimulation.
• Masturbation sleeves (like Fleshlights) are textured tubes that simulate the feeling of penetration

Remember if you are new here, don’t be shy, you can make first try with small sex toys. Such as bullet vibrators, small size dildo.

Step 3 Consider the Material

The texture of the plaything is essential when it comes to comfort and safety. Look for toys made from body-safe materials such as medical-grade silicone, glass, or stainless steel. These materials are non-porous and therefore prostheses that help to prevent the risk of bacterial infection, and especially great in terms of sanitization. They are ideal because they are soft, flexible, and quick to warm to the body temperature.

Plastics, whether jelly or rubber, other porous materials should be avoided too because such toys have dangerous ingredients and are almost impossible to clean efficiently. You ought to consider hypoallergenic materials like silicone or glass if you are dealing with delicate skin or have allergic tendencies.

Step 4 Find Best Size Of Sex Toy

The dimensions and contours of the toys are again to be considered, mostly if you are a novice in finger toys. It is always advisable to begin with less intimidating and smaller sizes and progress as confidence grows. For vaginal / anal penetration, look for toys with a tapered and smooth surface as they are easier to insert and easy to control.

If you are the kind that wants everything at once, you can also opt for rabbit vibrators that possess internal and external…well, features. Finally, if you do want an all over usage massager, wand massagers are absolutely good for that needing you to just press and use it with wide, strong vibrations evoking deep satisfaction. 

In the end, again, please do not be shy or indecisive; having sexual desire doesn’t mean guilt; Choosing the right sex toys is a good choice for your sex life. Make everything easier